[Jesus] came to a Samaritan city called Sychar, near the plot of ground that Jacob had given to his son Joseph. Jacob’s well was there, and Jesus, tired out by his journey, was sitting by the well. It was about noon.
A Samaritan woman came to draw water, and Jesus said to her, ‘Give me a drink’. (His disciples had gone to the city to buy food.) The Samaritan woman said to him, ‘How is it that you, a Jew, ask a drink of me, a woman of Samaria?’ (Jews do not share things in common with Samaritans.) Jesus answered her, ‘If you knew the gift of God, and who it is that is saying to you, “Give me a drink”, you would have asked him, and he would have given you living water.’ The woman said to him, ‘Sir, you have no bucket, and the well is deep. Where do you get that living water? Are you greater than our ancestor Jacob, who gave us the well, and with his sons and his flocks drank from it?’ Jesus said to her, ‘Everyone who drinks of this water will be thirsty again, but those who drink of the water that I will give them will never be thirsty. The water that I will give will become in them a spring of water gushing up to eternal life.’ The woman said to him, ‘Sir, give me this water, so that I may never be thirsty or have to keep coming here to draw water.’
Jesus said to her, ‘Go, call your husband, and come back.’ The woman answered him, ‘I have no husband.’ Jesus said to her, ‘You are right in saying, “I have no husband”; for you have had five husbands, and the one you have now is not your husband. What you have said is true!’ The woman said to him, ‘Sir, I see that you are a prophet. Our ancestors worshipped on this mountain, but you say that the place where people must worship is in Jerusalem.’ Jesus said to her, ‘Woman, believe me, the hour is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You worship what you do not know; we worship what we know, for salvation is from the Jews. But the hour is coming, and is now here, when the true worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth, for the Father seeks such as these to worship him. God is spirit, and those who worship him must worship in spirit and truth.’ The woman said to him, ‘I know that Messiah is coming’ (who is called Christ). ‘When he comes, he will proclaim all things to us.’ Jesus said to her, ‘I am he, the one who is speaking to you.’
Just then his disciples came. They were astonished that he was speaking with a woman, but no one said, ‘What do you want?’ or, ‘Why are you speaking with her?’ Then the woman left her water-jar and went back to the city. She said to the people, ‘Come and see a man who told me everything I have ever done! He cannot be the Messiah, can he?’ They left the city and were on their way to him.
Meanwhile the disciples were urging him, ‘Rabbi, eat something.’ But he said to them, ‘I have food to eat that you do not know about.’ So the disciples said to one another, ‘Surely no one has brought him something to eat?’ Jesus said to them, ‘My food is to do the will of him who sent me and to complete his work. Do you not say, “Four months more, then comes the harvest”? But I tell you, look around you, and see how the fields are ripe for harvesting. The reaper is already receiving wages and is gathering fruit for eternal life, so that sower and reaper may rejoice together. For here the saying holds true, “One sows and another reaps.” I sent you to reap that for which you did not labour. Others have labored, and you have entered into their labour.’
Many Samaritans from that city believed in him because of the woman’s testimony, ‘He told me everything I have ever done.’ So when the Samaritans came to him, they asked him to stay with them; and he stayed there for two days. And many more believed because of his word. They said to the woman, ‘It is no longer because of what you said that we believe, for we have heard for ourselves, and we know that this is truly the Savior of the world.’
John 4:5-42
My sermon from the Third Sunday in Lent (March 19, 2017) on John 4:5-41.
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Today, right at this moment, what are you grateful for? For me, I’m grateful for parentheses. Now this isn’t the typical thing people share when we talk about being thankful. We usually hear words about our health, or having a roof over our heads, or being thankful for even waking up this morning. Points of punctuation are not usually on the list. But after a week of still not being used to last Sunday’s time change, a storm that kept my kids home from school for two long and loud days, and as we catch our breath after hearing this long text from John right before we move into a moment of prayer and anointing, I’m drawn to those rounded brackets that creates pauses for afterthoughts and explanations. These parentheses break up the story, inviting us to slow down, breathe, and gain a tiny bit of insight while the story of Jesus and the Samaritan woman unfolds. Each set of rounded brackets invites us to stop reading the story and instead just experience it. There is a vast amount of meaning that shows itself when we let ourselves be overwhelmed by this visual, sensual, and dramatic story. But on days when that sounds like a lot of work, and a good nap is more enticing to us than trying to learn everything we can about one of Jesus’ stories, I’m thankful for parentheses because they also show us that the people who first heard these stories, collected them, and shared what Jesus said – even they had off days. Even they didn’t understand all the allusions and details of every story that Jesus showed them. Even these first believers still needed explanations. The parentheses in today’s text reminds us of the grace God gives us to share and tell Jesus’ story even if we are tired, worn out, or let our lack of knowledge keep us silent.
Now, there’s a lot about this story that didn’t need to be explained to John’s community. They knew the significance of wells, especially Jacob’s well. Wells were not just places to fill your pails with water. Wells, in the Old Testament, were places where love happened. Jacob, the one who wrestled with an angel and was renamed Israel, met his first wife Rachel – at a well. In Jesus’ time, if there were top 40 radio stations, every song wouldn’t have been about hitting the club; it would have been about hanging out at the well. So Jesus, who is single, begins this story by hanging out in the stereotypical place where people meet, fall in love, and get married. And then a woman enters the scene.
But she comes to the well at a very odd time. John’s community knew visited wells in the morning. They would fill their containers with the water they needed for the day while the air was still cool. But this woman comes at noon, in the middle of the day, when the day would be hot andno one else would be around. The scene is set for both Jesus and the Samaritan woman to be at the place where love happens, by themselves. This story begins with the best setup possible for the biblical version of a Rom Com.
And that’s not all John’s community would have known. Christian tradition has spent a lot of time focusing on the woman’s marital state, using her history of husbands as a way to judge her character. But as a woman she had limited access to any hope for financial independence. She didn’t have we own wealth, the jobs available to her we’re limited, and she could be divorced by anyone just…cuz. She couldn’t pull herself up by her bootstraps because society wouldn’t let her. Her father, her husband, and her son were they only safety net she had. We tend to imagine that her five husbands died but it’s more likely they divorced her because she couldn’t have children. And we see that because, after her fifth marriage, she ends up with another man rather than moving into her son’s or her father’s house. She’s a woman who married because she’s trying to survive. If her story had parentheses, it would be filled with the long story of women just trying to make it one more day. I imagine she goes to the well at noon, tired, exhausted, worn out and hoping she won’t see anyone. But Jesus is there, already waiting for her.
And they talk. And talk. And talk. Jesus knows who she is and invites her to know him. He accepted who she is and the fullness of her story. Jesus offers her, a Samaritan, a foreigner and an enemy, the opportunity to know a God who values, honors, and cares for her. She doesn’t know everything about Jesus but she knows he knows her. And that’s enough for her to leave her bucket behind and go tell others about this man at the well.
When the Samaritan woman leaves to invite others to get to know Jesus, she doesn’t know all of Jesus’ story. The Cross and the Resurrection are still to come. But her experience of Jesus is honest, authentic, and real because Jesus treats her as honest, authentic, and real too. She goes to invite others to meet Jesus because her experience of being valued by him is something others should experience too.
The Samaritan woman didn’t know everything before she shared Jesus. And the community John’s gospel came out of didn’t know everything either. Even they needed the conflict between Samaritans and Jews explained. But not knowing the full story doesn’t mean we can’t share our Jesus’ story. The empty parentheses didn’t stop John’s community from sharing Jesus. And the parentheses you carry, the tidbits and explanation you are waiting to be filled, they don’t limit what you can do. Even the doubt and questions you carry, thinking you don’t know enough to really explain this Jesus thing to your family, friends, and neighbors, none of that limits you from sharing what you do you have. You have Jesus. You have a God who promises to be with you even when you want to stay away from prying eyes. You have a story the world needs to hear and you have a faith that truly makes a difference. No parentheses you want filled can change how much God values you. By sharing your honest, authentic, and real faith – no matter how big, or colorful, or full of questions and doubts your faith might have – you’ll show that Jesus is interested in all kinds of people because every person means everything to him.
Amen.
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